While this is generally not the sole reason why older women like younger guys, rediscovering what it feels to be loved and cherished by a man can make a woman prolong her relationship with her toy boy. There have been many studies conducted exploring the reasons behind older men dating younger woman. Anyway, currently dating a man 56 and I'm 43. As for bisexual and homosexual study participants, similar patterns showed up. When you start a family, for example, it is important that the man is able to provide security. All these qualities make younger women so hot! We have finally entered the age of agelessness, at least in terms of appearance. I am not a party girl and I do find a lot of men in my age group immature.
What I could offer her was the fact that I was a nice, quiet guy who would let her grow as a person, would encourage her further education, and would not hurt her, physically or emotionally. Some of my friends do not understand why I like older men but they really don't care as long as I'm happy. This experience makes a big difference in comparison to younger men who have not yet put in the same amount of work when it comes to treating and pleasing women. It's not that older women aren't deep or that they are avoiding attachment, it's just that they are more likely to be ready for a less-involved relationship and won't fall apart if things don't work out. There's definitely a maturity aspect as well. There are a lot of good reasons why some women like me prefer older men, and I am going to enumerate some of them here. I am a very young beautiful 50 year old woman, and it is very sick of a man who is insecure and if it was his daughter he would get very angry.
I only gave my perspective on my relationship. To be fair to him, he was a great guy, but. Talking it through often gives you fresh insight and a whole new lease of life as well — younger eyes help you see things from a fresh and different perspective. He is 5 years younger than my father, who is very much alive and I have a great relationship with him. This is a big disappointment, and hurtful if I liked the guy. He told me it was an ego thing. They maintain an active lifestyle apart from the office.
Instead, they just see you as a prize or an object. There are many ways of doing this and one of them is to do something that others don't approve of. So, as an independent woman, I have been labeled a Gold Digger, whore, asked unbelievably insulting questions by strangers like 'what do you do for a living? The only advantage an older man has over a younger man is life experience. I don't hit people, I won't even shout at them! He said that alone stopped him from ever looking at a woman's profile regardless of her age. In fact, men who leave their wives to hook up with a younger babe has become a fairly common occurrence during this century, leaving mature women out in the cold for mates. While they will create careers, they also want to eventually create a family.
He has mental illness like me and we help each other through the rough times and support each other. Some men date younger woman to prove to themselves they haven't lost his touch. Many of the younger men just want to have fun for a few years and don't want to be pressured into anything, let alone settling down and raising a family. I can't agree more even though I'm more towards gen X. I have more money than he does.
A man who awakens to this awareness realizes his chances for posterity can be greater with a younger woman who is still able to have his biological children. Hmmmmm even before the age of technology, men are already seen as providers for the family. In young adult relationships, these needs are often in conflict, as the woman wants more intimacy and the man is focused on building his career. Does anyone honestly think that guys use Tinder to seek meaningful relationships? I am 77 years old and interested in a 30 something woman. I find it very sexy when a man knows how to cook and not just a simple dish like boiled potatoes and fried eggs. I too, sometimes put him in his place if he is about to go way over the top. When a Younger Guy Gets Dumped For an Older Guy We recently got an an email from a guy recently who wanted to know why women like older men.
This concept is similar to the mentality of a child or a toddler, who will always go for the candy that he or she is not allowed to eat. Older men and more traditional adults don't understand it. But men were also interested in women their own age, the study found. He told me the problem is women post pictures that make them look old. But someone who not stupid and behaves like a silly child. People I don't know and who don't know me at all, on the other hand, are always the ones quick to jump and think I am a gold-digger. Yes, it could be daddy issues indeed.
He is constantly supportive, and he encourages me to be the best version of myself. Always want to take good care of her. I am 51 and my fiance is 31 we just read the article together and we totally agree. It is likely that the advent of injectables and other anti-aging treatments have helped change the tides, because within the last decade, younger men are flocking to and seeking older, more mature women. It does makes things more interesting. According to Lehmiller, that finding is in line with past research showing larger age differences in same-sex couples versus heterosexual couples. I noticed a couple of personal comments that might have reflected your experience which is okay but it sounds like you're still holding a lot of anger and that anger is going to limit you in your decisions.